Traditionally, men have been expected to act in a certain way, to be aggressive, dominant, and to suppress their emotions. These expectations are what we call "doing masculinity." It is a set of behaviors, attitudes, and beliefs that are considered masculine, and men are expected to conform to them.
Physical Strength and Aggressiveness
One of the most common examples of "doing masculinity" is physical strength and aggressiveness. Men are expected to be strong, tough, and able to protect themselves and their families. This stereotype is perpetuated in movies, TV shows, and other forms of media, where men are often portrayed as violent and aggressive.
Avoiding Feminine Traits
Another example of "doing masculinity" is avoiding feminine traits. Men are expected to be tough and unemotional, and showing any kind of vulnerability or femininity is seen as a weakness. Men who show emotion or engage in activities that are considered feminine, such as cooking or sewing, are often ridiculed or ostracized.
Promiscuity and Sexual Conquest
Men who are sexually active with multiple partners are often seen as more masculine than those who are not. This stereotype is perpetuated in movies, TV shows, and other forms of media, where men who are sexually active are often portrayed as more desirable and attractive.
Macho Behavior and Toughness
Men who engage in macho behavior, such as fighting or aggressive sports, are often seen as more masculine than those who do not. This stereotype is perpetuated in movies, TV shows, and other forms of media, where men who engage in these activities are often portrayed as tough and manly.
Conclusion
Gender roles and expectations have changed over time, and the idea of what it means to be a man has evolved. However, the traditional idea of "doing masculinity" still persists in many cultures and societies. It is important to recognize these stereotypes and work towards breaking them down, so that men can be free to express themselves in ways that are authentic and true to who they are.
